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Story from Sex. Now we're in lockdown we've got time on our hands and the chance to experiment a little moreit's time to talk about what is one of the more taboo areas of sexual exploration. People can be squeamish about putting big things inside of their vaginas or anusesand rightfully so.
The idea of putting a giant dildoa big penis, or even an entire fist inside of you can be intimidating. Fisting, in particular, seems to be shrouded in a unique kind of taboo, which is unfortunate — if people knew more about the sex practice, more people who'd be into it would be able to enjoy it. If the idea of fisting is intriguing to you, there's no reason to let fear or sex negativity stop you from trying it out. You just need to learn exactly what it entails and how to prepare for it. Hint: Lots of lube is involved. Just to clear up any lingering confusion: Fisting refers to an entire hand being inserted into an orifice.
While often associated with vaginas, it's also done on anuses which requires a lot of extra lube and preparation. And while sex positive people in general are non-judgmental about fisting, it tends to be more commonly celebrated in queer circles. Why are people into fisting?
When done properly, fisting can feel really good. Take it from Dr. Powell: "Fisting gives an unparalleled feeling of fullness. With the entire hand inside a hole, you can have far more tissue stimulated at the same time. Powell says. Why does it freak some people out?
Unfortunately, many people have been taught by society that vaginas woman being fisted stretch and become loose if too many things or too large of things are put into them. This has led to the sex negative, misogynistic notion of "loose women" a. So, as long as you're being mindful of your body and using proper preparation and enough lube, you can enjoy fisting, and your vagina should bounce right back.
As for the sex negativity and sexism that feeds into the bias against fisting? That will likely take time to fix, but studies suggest that society is only becoming more accepting of a wider range of sexual behaviour each year, so take that for what it's worth. How should I go about trying it? Safe fisting requires patience, practice, communication, and, yes, plenty of lube. She says that thicker, silicone-based lubes tend to work best, as water-based lubes can be sticky.
Using latex gloves black ones can be extra sexy can also make fisting easier, since they prevent lube from absorbing into the skin of the fister's hand and help it slide in smoother. If you and your partner are both into trying fisting and you've talked about ittry starting with one finger and work your way up.
Powell says it can be helpful for the receiving partner to take deep breaths as they're being fisted.
If the receiving partner experiences discomfort at any point, step back and pause. After warming up the orifice by starting with one finger and adding more, you can move into fisting by having the giving partner create a " duck shape " with their fingers meaning: fingers are straight and pressed together, like a duck's beak to slide the hand in. They should move slowly and in conjunction with the receiving partner's breaths, and if the orifice is ready and willing, they can create an actual fist with their hand by closing the "duck's mouth" and thrust the hand in and out at a more rapid pace.
Again, maintain communication to make sure you're both comfortable the entire time. As for removing the fist completely, Dr. Powell says that that can get dicier than the initial insertion.
Rather than taking deep breaths, she suggests coughing during the fist removal. With enough love and lube, anything is possible — including fitting an entire hand in your vagina without destroying it. Welcome to Summer Of Love: a new weekly column about how people are getting back into the dating game and getting it on post-lockdown. In our new, post-vaccine world which, reminder, is not the same thing as a post-COVID worldmany people have started travelling again, socialising again. I thought I took my virginity when I masturbated for the first time.
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